1. Write a full physical description of yourself. You might want to consider factors such as: height, weight, race, hair and eye color, style of dress, and any tattoos, scars, or distinguishing marks. 5'7, 180 lbs, African America, dark brown kinky hair, dark brown slanted eyes, dressy casual style, no tattoos, two piercings in each ear.
2. Are you right- or left-handed? right
3. What does your voice sound like? i have a medium pitched voice for an African American female, when I'm angry it gets really high, when I am nervous it gets really low! I have a slight lisp.
4. What words and/or phrases do you use very frequently? whatever, freaking, genius
5. What do you have in your pockets? nothing, not even lent
6. Do you have any quirks, strange mannerisms, annoying habits, or other defining characteristics? i bite my nails, snore extremely loudly, look at people like im looking over glasses when i'm being a smart ass, extremely sarcastic.
Part 2: Growing Up
7. How would you describe your childhood in general? exciting, full of laughter
8. What is your earliest memory? when i was in Va. a little girl stole the doll that I received for my birthday
9. How much schooling have you had? i have two courses in a Master's program
10. Did you enjoy school? i loved school until i started grad school
11. Where did you learn most of your skills and other abilities? school
12. While growing up, did you have any role models? If so, describe them. I don't think i had any. I loved my teachers and Coretta Scott King (though I didn't have a clue as to all of the work she'd done since her husband's death).
13. While growing up, how did you get along with the other members of your family?
We have a pretty close family, parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents. My sister and I faught all the time, but when someone messed with one of us, we had each other's back.
14. As a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?
'anything that can help somebody. i wanna be a teacher or a doctor or a lawyer. i just wanna help people.' that's what i told one of my friend's mom.
15. As a child, what were your favorite activities? playing sports with the boys
16. As a child, what kinds of personality traits did you display? reserved, intelligent, the same as now
17. As a child, were you popular? Who were your friends, and what were they like?
i wasn't popular, but i wasn't a nobody either. rita was my best friend, until i met veronica. then veronica moved away, but rita and i kinda grew apart. rita has always been my protector, the one i know i can always count on. veronica was my friend whose house i spent the night over all the time and told my secrets to. tanita was the friend i liked the most but was ashamed to admit it.
18. When and with whom was your first kiss?
corey was the first person i kissed and that was when i was in the 8th grade
19. Are you a virgin? If not, when and with whom did you lose your virginity?
nope, brandon was the first person i had sex with and i was in the 11th grade.
20. If you are a supernatural being, what would you be? I'd be CHARMED. I would have the power to be in more than one place at a time.
Part 3: Past Influences
21. What do you consider the most important event of your life so far? the moment i decided to embrace my blackness
22. Who has had the most influence on you? i don't know. i get influenced by guys. i wish i would listen to my friends more. some of my friends think i am just like my moma. i wish i could be as strong as my moma.
23. What do you consider your greatest achievement? graduating magna cum laude
24. What is your greatest regret? dont really have one at the moment
25. What is the most evil thing you have ever done? slept with someone else's man with no regrets
26. Do you have a criminal record of any kind? naw
27. When was the time you were the most frightened?in yazoo after i thought that man was coming in my house
28. What is the most embarrassing thing ever to happen to you?
something on the basketball court, but nobody knows it was me, so i still wont admit it
29. If you could change one thing from your past, what would it be, and why?
nothing... each experience is a learning experience
30. What is your best memory?
the night of my 6th grade 'graduation'
31. What is your worst memory?
not knowing what i was going to do with the rest of my life in august 2005
Part 4: Beliefs And Opinions
32. Are you basically optimistic or pessimistic? most of the time i am pessimistic, but at this point in life i am optimistic
33. What is your greatest fear? not being happy
34. What are your religious views? i was raised baptist, but im basically christian. i believe in some things the baptist do, the catholics, the jehovah witnesses, a little bit of errything, as long as the religion follows Christ
35. What are your political views? democratic for the most part
36. What are your views on sex? people should only have sex with someone if they are absolutely sure they wont regret it. if u have to lie about it to ANYONE, you shouldnt be doing it.
37. Are you able to kill? Under what circumstances do you find killing to be acceptable or unacceptable? i dont know if it is ever acceptable, but if someone is bringing pain to or trying to harm my family, i might do some serious damage
38. In your opinion, what is the most evil thing any human being could do? rape a child
39. Do you believe in the existence of soul mates and/or true love? everyone has a soul mate, some people just look past them
40. What do you believe makes a successful life? someone is completely happy
41. How honest are you about your thoughts and feelings (i.e. do you hide your true self from others, and in what way)? very blunt, open, and honest
42. Do you have any biases or prejudices? im not prejudice, but i am pro-black
43. Who or what, if anything, would you die for (or otherwise go to extremes for)?
i would die for my immediate family and Tougaloo College
Part 5: Relationships With Others
44. In general, how do you treat others (politely, rudely, by keeping them at a distance, etc.)? Does your treatment of them change depending on how well you know them, and if so, how? I'm a pretty sarcastic person. I'm a bitch when people I don't know fuck up. When I get to know people, I try to make sure I don't hurt them.
45. Who is the most important person in your life, and why? travis because that's my baby
46. Who are your friends? Do you have a best friend? Describe these people.
I don't want to answer this question at this point in my life.
47. Have you ever been in love? If so, describe what happened.
i loved BOB. he cheated, i cheated, we were young.
59. What do you look for in a potential lover?
honesty and intellect
60. How close are you to your family?
really...love em til death, even after death
61. Have you started your own family? If so, describe them. If not, do you want to? Why or why not? i havent started a family because God doesn't want me to yet. that's the only conclusion i can come to because i honestly have tried.
62. Who would you turn to if you were in desperate need of help?
my moma or khallmon
63. Do you trust anyone to protect you? Who, and why?
my immediate family and my closest friends
64. If you died or went missing, who would miss you?
immediate family, khallmon, ash, freak
65. Who is the person you despise the most, and why?
lissa at the moment
66. Do you tend to argue with people, or avoid conflict?
avoid serious conflict, but argue for the hell of it over simple things
67. Do you tend to take on leadership roles in social situations?
naw
68. Do you like interacting with large groups of people? Why or why not?
no i dont like people bc they have too many issues
69. Do you care what others think of you?
a few ppl
Part 6: Likes And Dislikes
70. What is/are your favorite hobbies and pastimes? reading and traveling
72. What is your favorite color? orange
73. What is your favorite food? mac n cheese
74. What, if anything, do you like to read? books by aframs
76. Do you smoke, drink, or use drugs? If so, why? Do you want to quit?
i drink because of the taste and no i dont want to quit
78. What makes you laugh? pple they are so damn funny, esp. when not trying to be
80. What would you do if you had insomnia and had to find something to do to amuse yourself? read a book
81. How do you deal with stress? read a book so that i can live in somebody else's problems
82. Are you spontaneous, or do you always need to have a plan?
spontaneous...my plans never work out. i just do shit on a whim
Part 7: Self Images And Etc.
84. Describe the routine of a normal day for you. How do you feel when this routine is disrupted?
go to work, talk to a few ppl, go to sleep
85. What is your greatest strength as a person? loyalty
86. What is your greatest weakness? naive, think everyone has my best interest at heart
87. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
my stomache
88. Are you generally introverted or extroverted?
introverted until i get to know ppl
90. Name three things you consider yourself to be very good at, and three things you consider yourself to be very bad at. listening, writing, loving; not reading ppl very well, speaking at public, and not trusting my instinct
91. Do you like yourself?
love myself
93. What goal do you most want to accomplish in your lifetime?
become a successful attorney
94. Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
either law school or teaching
95. If you could choose, how would you want to die?
in my sleep
96. If you knew you were going to die in 24 hours, name three things you would do in the time you had left.
take my neices and nephews to disney world, drive as far across country as possible, call as many ppl as i could and tell them exactly how feel about them
97. What is the one thing for which you would most like to be remembered after your death? i dont know but thats a good ass question
98. What three words best describe your personality?
silly, sarcastic, caring
99. What three words would others probably use to describe you?
reserved, intelligent, loyal
the numbers are off bc i deleted some of the questions.
